SoK #2: You Are What You See

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As a doctor who specializes in diseases like diabetes, I know a bit about nutrition and metabolism.  I really believe in the old saw or saying “You are what you eat.”  That is, the amount and types of different foods really affects not only our weight, but our general health.  Food is a complicated mixture of energy sources (calories), protein (to make new tissues like muscle and skin and heal wounds), and micronutrients like vitamins to support a wide range of biochemical processes.

It is pretty well understood that when our diets are imbalanced, different functions in our bodies may suffer.  Taking in too little or too much of something can cause diseases; there are lots of examples that have filled textbooks.  People who are deficient in vitamin D, for example, suffer from bone problems and weakness; too much vitamin D may have high calcium in their blood, kidney stones, and possibly liver problems.  The key to a successful diet (and nutritional health) is balance and moderation of good quality food.

Years ago when I realized that I was “ingesting” way too much negative news [1], I began to think about my “visual diet” and wondered what the research literature had to say about it.  The analytic side of my brain was fascinated to find out that a few short minutes of exposure to negative news can induce anxiety, stress, and symptoms of depression.

Years ago when I realized I was “ingesting” way too

much negative news… I learned that the effects of

negative news exposure can last hours into the day

for a substantial fraction of people. 

Wendy Johnston and Graham Davey showed that a 14-minute video of negative TV news (not even internet-delivered news) can rapidly increase anxiety and sadness [2].  What’s particularly noteworthy is that beyond induction of anxiety and sadness, watching negative news spilled over to their own personal worries and amplified them.  That is, the participants of the study who saw negative news (in contrast to positive or neutral films), expressed greater anxiety related to personal issues.  A preliminary report from Michelle Gielan, Shawn Achor, and collaborators at the Huffington Post suggested that the effects of negative news exposure can last hours into the day for a substantial fraction of people.

So depressing and fear-inducing news can make people feel more sad and anxious, which, in turn, can magnify their own problems and can last for quite some time.  Wow.  A difficult, negative emotional cycle that can be self-reinforcing.  That is, someone gets depressed and/or stressed by the news.  Their emotional and mental state affects interpersonal behavior which then reinforces assumptions about the world.  This is huge and consistent with what I was experiencing.

Inspiring, positive media have opposite effects from

negative media. 

How about “positive” news or stories?  The few studies that exist suggest that inspiring, positive media have opposite effects from negative media.  Algoe and Haidt found that viewing a short (~4 min) video of a young man who established a homeless shelter in Philadelphia was specifically able to induce gratitude and love in contrast to videos that inspire admiration or were just funny [3].  Schnall and colleagues showed volunteers a video from the Oprah Winfrey show in which a musician pays tribute to his former music teacher.  The teacher had saved the young musician from a life of gang activity and violence.  Seeing that 7-minute video significantly increased the willingness of the participants to volunteer compared to an amusing video [4].  Other studies of this kind [5]. showed that viewing uplifting videos may have positive or desirable effects on sexual prejudice as well as stimulating mothers to nurse.

All of this research led me to coining the phrase “Just as you are what you eat, you are what see.”  The word “diet”, in fact (and I only recently learned), does not just refer to what food we eat.  It comes from the Greek meaning for “way of life” or how one lives his or her life.  With that broadened definition the word “diet” had greater meaning as to all of the things that we absorb–food, stories, images, sounds (music)–and how they impact us.

Just like eating food that is bad for us can change

our bodies, taking in images and stories that are

unhealthy can really change how we think and behave.

We need a balanced visual diet.

As much as we may think that our personalities are stable, just like eating food that is bad for us can change our bodies, taking in images and stories that are unhealthy can really change how we think and behave.  I should be clear that this does not mean to ignore the negative news.  There are important things to learn about to help us understand what others are going through and to help fix the problems.  It really means that we need a balanced visual diet—one that nourishes the soul and yet motivates us to action to make things better.

In the next blog, will explore how images of kindness specifically affect people.  There is a lot of cool stuff here.

In kindness,

David

(aka Prof K)

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[1] Psychologists use the terms negative and positive to describe some emotions or triggers that evoke those emotions.  Negative news or stories refer to stories of death, destruction, greed, natural disaster, etc.  Positive news would be people helping each other; someone surviving a difficult surgery or an accident; people volunteering to save a town from a flooding river.

[2] Johnston, W., and G. Davey. The psychological impact of negative TV news bulletins: The catastrophizing of personal worries.  British Journal of Psychology 88:85-91 1997

[3] Algoe, S., and J. Haidt.  Witnessing excellence in action: the other praising emotions of elevation, gratitude, and admiration.  J. Positive Psychology 4:105-127 2009

[4] Schnall, S., and colleagues.  Elevation leads to altruistic behavior.  Psychologic Science 21:315-320 2010

[5] For example, from the Oprah Winfrey show, in which a musician talks appreciatively about his former music teacher and mentor, who saved him from a life of gang activity

SoK #1: Welcome to Science of Kindness 101

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Honestly, I am a nerd.  A professor type who is still a child that loves science and medicine.  Long coat, gray hair: I’m sure that you can imagine it.

As part of the professor of medicine gig, I love to teach and share what I know with others—from other professionals to medical students as well as high school students (absolutely love teaching high school students). I love to teach because of the possibility of enriching someone else’s life is huge for me; a real gift.  And then that person makes the teachings his or her own and does the same for someone else. Teaching evidence-based science that raises the quality of life for many others because they use the science.  Very cool.

So, you may ask, what does this have to do with kindness?

Most people are good.  Most people are kind.

About 5 years ago, I became depressed after reading the news a lot.  And when I realized it was due to how much of mainstream news I was reading, the nerd in me began to study it.  I learned a lot—about how the images and stories we see and hear about impact us.  How easy it is for photographs of negative things—violence, greed, conflict—to make people anxious, fearful, stressed, or depressed.

I thought (and still do) that how the news represented the world wasn’t right.  Most people are good.  Most people are kind.  Most love their families and treat others with respect and tolerance.  While the vast majority (including myself) are not kind to the level of Mother Teresa (or pick your own favorite humanitarian), there is good inside so many people.  And because of the pressures of modern life, especially with the torrential flood of negative news, I worried that could make people less kind.  All of this could disconnect them from even their own communities or families.  That meant people would not be able to enjoy the full potential of a human life.

So how do we change that?  How do we help people reconnect to the essence of being human in a quick and non-judgmental way?  It made me think that if we could rebalance what people saw we could help inspire them to be even kinder and to be able to see and appreciate kindness.

We co-founded Envision Kindness to promote kindness,

compassion and empathy through image-based stories,

in the pursuit of a kinder and happier world. 

I loved photography since I was 6 years old and know the immense power of an image to tell a story and transcend the limitations of language.  I thought: what if we could share images of kindness, compassion and empathy from around the world with people?  Share their stories and experiences?  And that’s how Envision Kindness was born.

With crucial help from my eldest son, Jesse, we co-founded Envision Kindness a non profit to promote kindness, compassion and empathy through image-based stories, in the pursuit of a kinder and happier world.

As Jesse and I worked on Envision, the nerd in me continued to show itself.  I began studying the biology and psychology of kindness.  And wow—it became really clear that kindness wasn’t just a nice and moral quality. It was baked into our biology.  You can see it in toddlers and in many species of animals, including insects.  Darwin referenced it as key to survival of a species.  And when I learned that people who volunteered regularly had death rates 20-40% lower than those who do not, I was floored.

Kindness isn’t just a nice and moral quality. It is baked

into our biology… People’s mental AND physical health

are strongly benefited by kindness. 

All this biology meant that people’s mental AND physical health were strongly benefited by kindness and that kindness isn’t just a “nice or moral” thing to do, but as influential to their health as clean water or vaccinations.  This is huge.

And then I realized that this is why I became a doctor.  People’s health could benefit in so many ways from kindness.  So in addition to developing these programs to gather and share images and stories of kindness, we have created this blog—to give to people the science-based view on why kindness is so important to our lives.  Really powerful stuff to know.

We will cover topics like why kind people live longer, the evidence for people being born kind, why laughter induces kindness, how kindness ripples, and even why kind guys get more dates.  To me, kindness embraces a lot of related concepts like gratitude, forgiveness, acting with integrity, social connection, joy, and love.  It is key to having a meaningful life.  So we will address these larger issues, too.  If we do this blog well, it will put a modern scientific face on the ancient wisdom “it is better to give than receive.”

In kindness,

David

(aka Prof K)

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