Kindness Served One Cup of Coffee at a Time

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Brewed Awakenings is serving community, one cup of coffee at a time. At this warm little coffee shop in Newark, Delaware, people are the focus. The shop is known for hosting residents from all walks of life and making all feel welcome.

As a psychologist, owner and founder J.D. Willetts knows the importance of kindness, conversation, and relationships. When he opened the coffee shop in 2015, he had a strong focus: community. Good coffee is a plus (and trust us, they do have it), but the real focus here is on the friendly space. “…I want to spread the love. I want this to be a place where people are physically, emotionally, spiritually safe,” Willetts said in an interview with Honey Grow. 

Though you will find Willets at the shop most days, he doesn’t keep a dime of the revenue at Brewed Awakenings. Instead, profit is used to help the community. Willets also tries to be free as much as possible so that he can do what he’s best at: talk. He loves to take the time to sit and chat with customers.

One true example of kindness at Brewed Awakenings is their Community Cup program. For $1.50 and a personalized sticky note, customers have the option to pay it forward and prepay for a coffee for someone in need.  And if someone comes in for a sandwich too? No problem – sticky notes can be redeemed for food too.

Love what Brewed Awakenings is doing but aren’t in Newark, DE? The spirit of community can be spread to your hometown. Ask your local coffee shop what they think about starting a community cup program, or go out and buy someone a coffee today.

Tails of Compassion: Kindness and Compassion in Animals

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We often hear about how humans should have more compassion towards animals. There are often stories in the news about unkind treatment of animals by humans. We were raised to respect our fellow animal friends and show compassion and love towards them. By taking them into our homes we are offering them a life that they deserve. But, what do we understand about compassion from animals?

As those with pets will attest, sometimes it is the animal that brings that extra spark of joy to our day. Our pets are there when we return home from a long day and are there during some of our roughest moments. Animals offer a type of compassion that is innate and pure.

“I live with five dogs in my house hold. Therefore everyday is full with love and compassion. I captured this photo because this dog acts more human than dog.” says Savannah Barth, photographer.

Many organizations exist that work with animals and use the compassion in animals to help those that are ill or in retirement homes. Organizations like Tails of Joy in Connecticut bring the kindness of animals and use it to bring joy and comfort to those in need.

“If having a soul means means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans.” – James Herriot

We All Have the Right to Feel Wind in Our Hair

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Cycling Without Age is an international non profit organization that provides the elderly with opportunities to remain active in their day to day lives. Volunteers use trishaws to take their elders on a bike ride that they may not have otherwise have been given the chance to take. Elderly citizens are given the chance to tell their story and relive some of the experiences they had earlier in life.

Christian, the young boy in the video shows us just what being selfless means. He understands that giving to others not only provides kindness to others, but a sense of social responsibility within ourselves. As stated on the Cycling Without Age website, “We are all heading on the same path that our grandparents were on. It is an inevitable journey of life.”

“Without age is the principle of how life does not end at a given age, but instead we can embrace what each generation has to offer through something as simple as cycling.”

 

Video Credit: Mariana Abdalla has a passion in visual arts and her aim is to engage in digital and visual strategic communications.

Love Yourself Enough

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Love Yourself Enough. It is a simple enough quote, but holds so much more meaning, especially to those that have attended Camp Otyokwah, in Butler, Ohio.

Camp Otyokwah is an overnight summer camp for children and youth. The premise and vision behind the camp is that children are exposed to so many different messages about who they are and who they should be, with little opportunities to grow as individuals. Camp Otyokwah is about building individuality, friendships and a relationship with God. Here, campers have the opportunity to hear what God’s word says about them.

This photo was taken by photographer Jana Life during staff training week. The moment was captured right after staffer, Beth, had completed a trust fall in which she had to fall backwards off a 5 foot platform into the arms of her fellow staff members. The words on her shirt and the expression on her face say it all; loving yourself enough to trust those around you is a recipe for joy.

 

Camp Courage – Life Changing Camp for Those Affected by Burn-Related Injuries

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In this video, Anne Marie Gefell, an adult burn survivor, recaps what it was like going through the physical and mental trauma of a burn injury without a support system. Now Anne Marie is the director of youth services with the Finger Lakes Regional Burn Association which puts on a yearly summer camp, called Camp Courage, for young burn survivors. Anne Marie’s kindness and dedication to these young survivors makes it so that they will have a support group throughout their recovery and for the rest of their lives.

Finger Lakes Regional Burn Association is a non-profit organization whose mission is to insure that anyone affected by a burn-related injury receives the resources for their road to recovery. They also seek to raise fire and burn prevention awareness. occasionally beyond, regardless of social or economic status.

This film, by Jessica Plance, a student at RIT shows us how Camp Courage can transform not only children impacted by burns, but adults that experienced a burn-related injury earlier in life.

Gefell states, “You have to deal with trauma, or trauma will deal with you.”

 

For more information on Camp Courage, or to learn more about the impact burn-related injuries can have on a person, visit Finger Lakes Regional Burn Association or the American Burn Association.

Saint Mary’s Soup Kitchen: Nourishing the Body and Mind

Poverty, hunger and homelessness are a continuing issue in Memphis, one of the poorest big cities in America. St. Mary’s Soup Kitchen has been an ongoing source of comfort and need for many of those affected. They average more than 300 servings a day. In 2014 their total served was 88,000.
“Often the homeless feel invisible. People walk by them as if they are not even there, often avoiding eye contact. As for the image of the mans face, sometimes even just an acknowledgement of their presence, a smile, a kind word can make a connection with them. Sometimes eyes can connect soul to soul and no words even needs to be spoken. ” says Karen Pulfer Focht, photo journalist.

St. Mary’s Soup Kitchen is the longest continuously running soup kitchen in the United States. It has been operating since 1870, six days a week. Each day beverages, pastries, meat sandwiches, soup, fruit, candy and chips are served. “For four hours we feed bodies and nourish spirits with a hearty “Good Morning,” praise songs and a wish to “Have a blessed day!”

St. Mary’s is able to function because of the more than 50 volunteers from the area that give their time. They are always looking for volunteers Monday thru Friday from 7:15 AM to 10:00 AM. Donations can also be made to St. Mary’s Catholic Church Soup Kitchen.

To learn more about St. Mary’s Soup Kitchen, contact Martin at 901-649-3555.

According to the National Alliance to End Homelessness, there were 578,424 people experiencing homelessness in the U.S. in January 2014.

Photography taken by Karen Pulfer Focht. Karen isn’t just a photo journalist, but someone who expresses her heart through her photography.

To find a local soup kitchen in your area Feeding America.

 

 

Delta Fantasy Flight – A Flight of Imagination for Children Facing Life-Threatening Illnesses

The North Pole Fantasy Flight is a charity flight, put on by Delta, for children dealing with a life-threatening illness. Patients from local children’s hospitals take a fantasy flight to the “North Pole”. The day is full of wonderful surprises for the children including flight attendants dressed as elves, music, clowns, and a visit from Santa when the plane lands.
The Delta Fantasy Flight is something a child could only dream of. It gives children with life-threatening illnesses a chance to forget about hospitals and their illness. It is a day for these children and their families to experience the spirit of the season.

Photographer, Christa Breaugh, said, “It is truly a fantastic event that I was honored to witness.” Christa is currently a lifestyle and wedding photographer.

Give Kids The World is another organization that provides children with life-threatening illnesses and their families an experience of a lifetime. Children and their families visit a “storybook” resort in Florida for a week long, cost-free vacation.

Be Kind and Do Good Onto Others – Gifts of Smiles and Love in Oaxaca, Mexico

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The name Simply Smiles meant so much more after reviewing this story submitted by Evelyn Fenick. The photo submission name “Give” lends us just a little insight into the amazing charity work and joy that Simply Smiles and Evelyn gave to the Oaxaca village in Mexico.

Evelyn’s mission trip with Simply Smiles was full of eye opening experiences. Each day brought new challenges but at the same time companionship and understanding from all involved. One day consisted of visiting an orphanage that Simply Smiles built. Here the volunteers got to play with the children, cook, do crafts, and even listen to a mariachi band. Even though many of the volunteers knew little Spanish, “the children still welcomed me and we were able to communicate solely with smiles.” says Fenick. Despite having so little, the children were cheerful and excited to have the extra companionship.

One of the most remarkable experiences in Oaxaca was when the organization and volunteers visited the city dump. There were families living and working in the dump. Families spend most of their days work searching through the dump to collect items they can then sell. Each bag that they collect is worth one dollar. Volunteers were instructed to shake all of the families and workers hands. The reason why is heart wrenching. Buyers of the collected bags will not even place the dollar in the workers’ hands. Instead, they put the dollar payment on the ground. Shaking the workers’ hands gave a sign of respect and was very appreciated.

Late in the week the organization returned to the dump and had a drive of shoes, clothes, sheets, milk, towels, toilet paper and non perishable foods. Families lined up to choose what they needed. Even though each family was very much in need, the love and compassion the villagers had for one another was undeniable. A family chose a pair of shoes, as another family stood behind them, the man offered the shoes he had just chosen to the man behind him – he thought that this other family would have liked the shoes very much.

The week culminated with a fiesta. Invitations were passed out to all of the villagers from the village where the Simply Smiles base is stationed. Villagers helped with the cooking and there was a huge meal for everyone to enjoy.
We couldn’t sum up this story any better than from Evelyn’s words:
“After the trip I was so much more thankful for the small things that happen throughout the day and seeing the generosity of people. I realized that life’s meaning is to be kind and do good onto others. It taught me to not take anything for granted and to have an open mind to new adventures and meeting new people. There is a quote by Margaret Mead that states, ‘Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has. ‘ “
Evelyn Fenick studied Fine Arts at the University of Connecticut in 2013 with a concentration in Photography.

Those with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities Have So Much to Give: The Story of Bitty and Beau’s Coffee

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Bitty & Beau’s Coffee Shop in Wilmington, N.C. isn’t just any old coffee shop, Amy Wright was inspired to open Bitty & Beau’s Coffee Shop as a way to create jobs for people with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities(IDD).

Amy Wright and her husband have four children of their own, the two youngest, Bitty and Beau, have down syndrome. With hard to believe statistics, only about 30 percent of those with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities are employed. Wright wanted to create an opportunity for those in her community to show the value and potential of individuals with IDD.

“The takeaway is maybe we’ve changed one heart or one mind,” Wright said. “We’ve given somebody some new perspective, and…maybe they’re going to go back and try to figure out a way.”

Beau’s Coffee was first opened in January of 2016 in Wilmington, N.C. In July 2016, Beau’s Coffee was renamed Bitty & Beau’s Coffee as a wish from Beau himself. His 12th birthday wish was to have his sister’s name light up just like his. Bitty & Beau’s Coffee is now housed in a 5,000 sq/ft building and employs 40 individuals with IDD.

Bitty & Beau’s Coffee stands for values, inclusion and acceptance of those with intellectual and developmental disabilities.

Photos and video were created by Tegan Johnston. Tegan recently graduated from the University of North Carolina in photojournalism and currently interns with The Flint Journal. Tegan’s wonderful and inspiring work showcases that “each person is a living story that helps connect and transform this beautifully diverse world.”

 

 

To learn more about Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities you can visit the Eunice Kennedy Shriver Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities Research Center. This program was established to support researchers to have a goal of advancing their understanding topics concerning IDD. The Arc is another organization that is a leading advocate for individuals with IDD and their families. They provide support and services to those in need.

Keep Our Neighbors Warm Event: We Are On This Earth to Help One Another

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Keep Our Neighbors Warm, now in its 5th year, is an annual event put on by the Women with a Vision Ministries here in Connecticut. The most recent event took place on Saturday, December 10th at Capital Community College, where one of the members of the ministry, Marva Patterson, graduated.

Keep Our Neighbors Warm is a community event where donations of coats, footwear, hats, gloves, scarfs, sweaters, and blankets are accepted and then distributed to those in need. The winter drive begins in September of each year. Women with a Visions Ministries seeks donations from consignment stores, churches, and other local organizations. The items are then given out beginning in December. Last winter roughly 1500 individuals received warm clothing and accessories.

This annual program is one of many that is held each year by Women with a Vision Ministries. Around Mother’s Day the organization collects wallets, purses, and totes for the women at the Interval House and The Salvation Army Marshall House. Interval House provides services to break the cycle of domestic violence. Interval House is dedicated to providing services to prevent and break the cycle of family and intimate partner abuse. The Salvation Army House helps those in need in both Connecticut and Rhode Island.

Marva states, “I don’t take credit for what God has commissioned me to do as an ambassador of Jesus Christ.  We are on this earth to help one another. The reason I sent the information to you was because there are people out there that can help us help others.”

If you are interested in taking part of one of Women with a Vision Ministries’ drives you can contact Marva at [email protected] or 860-484-1511.